Is it wrong for a lady to always ask the "WHAT ARE WE" question in a relationship?

Often times in a relationship women or girls usually have a greater share of pain even when in good times but the most annoying thing is that women sometimes dont really know what they are to some men.

And most Ladies are always scared and afraid to ask their man "WHAT ARE WE?" 

Probably they may be thinking the man will get angry with them or something or even terminate the relationship, this usually happens when the lady loves him the most

the question goes like this...

IS IT WRONG TO ASK YOUR MAN WHAT ARE WE?

COMMENT YOUR ANSWERS PLEASE