7 Sure Signs That Shows that the person you’re dating Is a Player

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Signs That Shows the person  You’re Dating Is a Player
”Players gonna play, and you just have to shake it off”
Players and cheaters are a relationship nightmare
especially when the significant other is truly committed.
Most people have probably had the unfortunate privilege
of meeting, dating, and trying to avoid them at all costs.
Just because you might prepare yourself for the
thunderstorm and pack your umbrella, doesn’t mean you
won’t get wet.
Players often hide behind the guise of a nice, honest
gentleman, who will treat you with nothing but respect.
But the minute you let your guard down and let him into
your life, you’ll start to get that nagging suspicion that
something’s not right. Before you even know it, you’ve
been played, dumped and left heartbroken in one fell
swoop.
How you can see if you’re about to get played by the
guy you like!
Here are 7 of those telltale signs to help you.
#1. Wandering eyes
You don’t have to be dating a guy to tell if he’s probably a
player. At the gym recently, I witnessed first-hand a guy
turn to check out a girl’s butt who was walking in front of
me, to then see him turn back around, face me, and smirk.
You know the kind of smirk basically saying “‘sup girl”
without actually saying it?
When I see guys with their girlfriends, or married men
walking behind their wives at the mall, who literally think
they are slick when they turn around to check a girl out,
words like disgusting, pathetic and slime come to mind. As
women, we all know the whole look-over-the-shoulder-
neck-turn-checkout routine, and it’s not slick!
The point is, if you have any type of connection that is
more than just friends, and you catch his wandering eyes
checking out other girls in front of you, don’t waste any
more of your time on him. Chances are, he’ll do more than
just stare when you’re not watching.
#2. “Parents love him.” If you’re talking to a guy who says
something like “parents love me!” then you should
immediately know he’s good at saying all the right things,
or so he thinks. A guy that says parents love him is saying
he’s in control, that he knows all the right things to say
and it’s a walk in the park for him.
It could get you wondering why he has to affirm this,
when you can get a chance to witness it firsthand. The
mere fact that he has to declare this “talent” to you can
signal that he’s better at announcing it than proving it.
#3. He tunes in and out often
Have you been talking to a guy that will be blowing your
phone up constantly one day, and then you suddenly won’t
hear from him for over 24 hours? Do not think for a single
minute that you should check up on him, sending him
texts letting him know you’re worried because you haven’t
heard from him.
He’s not hurt, he’s not been captured by zombies, he’s not
been taken by aliens, and he’s not stranded somewhere on
the side of the road without cell phone service. He’s not
responding because you either said something extremely
offensive, in which case you should review your previous
conversation, or he’s out there with his philandering ways.

#4. Strong and fast

It’s one thing to feel you might be falling in love with

someone you recently started dating. It’s another to

actually say “I love you” to that someone. If you are

dating a guy, or have been talking to a guy for a very short

amount of time, and he’s already told you he’s in love

with you, he wants to marry you, surprises you with some

random ass piece of jewelry, or anything else that feels

like the setup of a Lifetime movie, then you are dating a

player.

If something seems too good to be true, it probably is.

Don’t give it up to the guy telling you stupid things like

he’s in love with you and wants to marry you within just

days of knowing each other. It’s those smooth words that

get the players laid.

#5. He’s cheated before

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Personally, I’ve been

cheated on, but I never stayed with the loser to find out if

he would and will always be a cheater. If you have recently

started dating a guy, and you know his last relationship

ended because he cheated, the probability of him cheating

again is pretty high.

If you happen to be the “other woman,” you know, the

girl he cheated on his last girlfriend with, the probability

of him cheating on you is even higher. Seriously, what’s to

stop him from cheating on you, when he cheated on his

last girlfriend with you? If something looks like a duck,

walks like a duck, acts like a duck… You know, it’s a duck.

#6. He won’t be your friend on social media

If you are dating a guy who says he’s never friends with

any girls he dates on Facebook, or that he doesn’t even

know why he has an account because he doesn’t even use

Facebook, or any other lame excuse where he’s trying to

justify you two not being friends and connected on social

media, he’s a player.

If you are dating a guy who actually likes you, I can assure

you he will have no problem being friends with you on

Facebook. After all, it will make communication easier,

right? If you spot him changing his display picture, despite

him insisting he doesn’t go on Facebook, then that’s a

huge red flag right there.

#7. Maybe all the time

If you’re talking to guy and he always replies with things

like “I’ll see,” or “Hmm, maybe” after you’ve asked him

if he wants to hang out later, or tomorrow, or even next

week, then you are dealing with a player. That’s because

he’s probably not sure if he’ll be out on any dates with

other women during those times, so he’s keeping you

hanging until he gets bored.

Getting played sucks, so it’s better off to back off from the

players before you end up getting hurt. Use these techniques

to spot a player, so you can keep him at a distance.

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